Did you know that between fifteen and twenty percent of couples claim to be in a sexless marriage? While there’s no requirement to keep having sex when you’re part of a couple, sex is certainly an act that can strengthen the bond between you and your partner.

One reason why people stop being intimate is because they feel that they keep having boring sex. Thankfully, there are many different ways to spice up sex.

So keep on reading, and we’ll show you how to spice up sex life!

1. Try a New Position

Doing the same thing over and over is the definition of boring. So go online and look up different sex positions. You can find some that are really creative and out there and plenty of others that are slight variations from what most people consider standard.

2. Try Different Penetration Techniques

If you and your partner are comfortable with switching things up, then you should consider pegging. This is a very safe way to explore boundaries.

Pegging is when a woman anally penetrates a man by using a strap-on dildo. It’s a great way to play with power dynamics in a couple. And no, if you’re a straight man that doesn’t mean that liking pegging means your gay.

3. Give a Little Spanking a Chance

Spanking is a great way to make the bedroom a little kinkier without breaking out all of the whips and chains. When you spank, you want to make sure that you hit the fleshy part of your partner’s body.

Watch out, and don’t hit any bony parts or organs. You also want to make sure that you always get consent before you do something like spanking.

4. Book a Hotel Room

Sometimes, all you need is a change in scenery. When you’re in your home, it’s easy to suddenly be distracted by various things. For example, you might be worried about your kids, about work, or something else.

You should go on a little vacation with your partner. When you’re in a hotel room, you don’t need to worry about any interruptions and you don’t even need to worry about making sure that you tidy up afterward.

5. Do Anal Play

If you’ve never explored anal play, then you might be intimidated at first. But fear not. Before you jump into anal sex, you can initiate things by inserting your finger, using butt plugs, or anal beads.

Of course, you always want to make sure that the person being penetrated is ready and knows exactly what’s going on and what you’re going to do.

You can even just try oral sex on the anus, also known as rimming, if you don’t want to do any penetration. It’s probably a good idea to make sure that you are all showered and clean before and after doing this.

6. Get Real About Your Feelings

Sometimes the sexiest thing you can do is just be open and vulnerable with your partner. If you’re worried that boring sex is ruining your relationship, then you should let your partner know this. If you don’t, you might be holding yourself back from having a fun time.

This can be especially true if you have trauma related to sex. If this is the case then you should reach out to the appropriate healthcare provider, like a clinical counselor, licensed therapist, nurse practitioner, or gynecologist.

You shouldn’t expect your partner to treat you at a clinical level, and you might need professional assistance. Talk to your partner about the feelings that you have and see how you can have a sexual relationship that is comfortable and fun.

7. Roleplay Is Always an Option

As you and your significant other get more comfortable with each other in the bedroom, one of the things to spice up sex that you can try is roleplaying. Your brain is your most powerful sex organ, and that means that having a big imagination can really get things hot and steamy.

An easy way to first get into roleplaying is to go out for a nice dinner and pretend that it’s your first date. You’ll suddenly understand why roleplaying makes people so excited.

As you get more comfortable with roleplaying, you can start to take on more interesting roles like doctors, teachers, politicians, and even aliens. Using sexy costumes can help enhance the experience even more.

8. Add Food Into the Mix

Want to literally spice up your sex life? Why not try licking hot sauce off of your partner’s body?

People also like to go the sweeter route too. You can cover a part of your significant other with whipped cream or chocolate sauce, for example.

9. Dirty Talk

A really effective and simple way to spice up the mood is to try some dirty talk. Start with a few expletives and see how filthy your words can get. While it might be awkward at first, you can try out different phrases and words until you find what works for you.

End Boring Sex Today

Boring sex can ruin an otherwise great relationship. Thankfully, there are many different strategies that you and your partner can try to spice things up and say goodbye to boring sex once and for all.

And if you’re intimidated about overcoming boring sex, you don’t have to do it alone. At New Fine Arts, we’ve got a wide variety of lingerie, toys, and novelties to help you and your partner have the sex life you deserve.

Contact us today and see what we can do for you!