With 80 percent of women and 45 percent of men admitting to using a vibrator on their own, it’s about time we start using them together. Using a vibrating dildo in the bedroom as a couple can create new experiences and enhance pleasure. Feel closer and more bonded by enhancing the intensity of your orgasms with each other.

Before you dive into the world of vibrating dildos, there are some things to consider. These tips will help you make your new experience a success.

1. Start Low and Slow

Using a vibrator with a partner can be awkward or feel strange at first. So, start slow and with the vibrations on low. This lets you experiment and get accustomed to the new sensations.

As you both get more comfortable, you can build by increasing the vibration intensity. Eventually, you can build to using the vibrator to orgasm.

2. Personalize Your Choice

We all find pleasure from different types of stimulation, so that the same vibrating dildo won’t work for everyone. Beginners may find a smaller dildo less intimidating. In comparison, someone more experienced may know the exact size they want.

Some individuals prefer a gentle vibration or more of a slow pulsating feeling. Others may prefer a stronger and more intense vibration. A dildo with adjustable settings is perfect for experimenting and finding just the right stimulation.

3. It’s a Toy, Not a Replacement

There are many types of vibrators, and not all will work with you and your partner’s sexual interests. A vibrating dildo can work well for insertion for those who enjoy penetration stimulation.

As you use your vibrating dildo, don’t forget about other methods for stimulation. The vibrator should not replace your other sexual activity. Try using it as a part of foreplay before moving on to sex.

4. Don’t Forget the Lube

You should always use lube when incorporating toys into your sex life. The skin in your intimate areas is sensitive, and not using lube puts you at risk of injury. The lube you choose needs to be compatible with the vibrating dildo’s material.

Do not use household products like baby oil as a lube. It can create skin irritation and damage your vibrator. Instead, use a water-based lube.

5. Try Different Positions

Couple’s sex toys give you new opportunities for pleasure because there is someone else there to operate the toy. Take turns using the vibrator on each other. Use it while in different positions to experience new sensations.

Take the vibrating dildo to different rooms or even in the shower to spice up your sex life.

Experiment With a Vibrating Dildo

Improving your sex life doesn’t have to be complicated. Adding a toy or two can create excitement and pleasure by adding new sensations. A vibrating dildo is a perfect couple’s toy because you can use it on each other.

When you visit New Fine Arts, you will find an impressive selection of vibrators and vibrating dildos. We can help you find the best one with the right size and features.

Visit one of our three Dallas locations with your partner and pick out a vibrating dildo to excite your sex life.